Dear Editor:Being the victim of domestic violence is an extremely damaging, convoluted, complicated, (and confusing at best) situation – particularly when one finally has the courage to hold their abuser accountable. I would like to advise anyone in a similar situation of the following…The sadness lies herein: 95% of “reported” cases of domestic violence and sexual assault are reported by women. Family violence creates a vicious, viral cycle. Thankfully, there are facilities in the nearby surrounding counties that facilitate victims and their children – particularly The Haven in Brady, which serves Menard, Mason, and McCulloch Counties…and those who may be relocating from other counties. The contact number there is 325.597.7644, and the Outreach Coordinator is Delma Nuncio. The Dove Project in San Saba (325.372.4199) also has a wonderful and healthful program available.Important things to remember, especially when questioning why the abused stay, are some of the following:Domestic violence is physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or physiological actions of threats of action that are used to gain or maintain power and control over an intimate partner. It is almost NEVER a one-time occurrence, and it usually escalates in frequency and severity throughout time.Domestic violence DOES not discriminate via race, gender, or socioeconomic status.Victims of domestic violence often remain in abusive relationships because of fear – for their lives, the safety of their children, and sometimes, homelessness. The reality of family violence-related injuries and deaths, which occur after a victim has left their abuser, means that leaving does not always mean safety. A personal safety plan must be put into place the best the person being abused can. A safety network of friends and family is vital.Domestic violence is not a private family matter. It is a crime with serious repercussions for the victim, their family, and the community affected…by any means.Batterers make excuses for their violence. Any external factors (alcohol, drugs, extreme stress) are not justifications, although they may intensify already existing violent behavior. Batterers choose to use violence in order to control their partner.Every 9 seconds in the US a woman is assaulted or beaten. Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women – more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined. Studies suggest that up to 10 million children (including my own) have witnessed some form of domestic violence annually. Almost 50% of all Texans have personally experienced family violence.Someone (or more than one person) may become another victim in that area…especially Llano. God bless that person/those people.Most sincerely,Traci Fields, Rochelle, TexasImportant links regarding domestic violence:www.tcfv.orgwww.taasa.org

Dear Editor,I am looking for the last name of Shorty of Shorty's Dance Hall, early 1940's, east of San Saba on U.S. 190.C. Carter San Saba, TX325-372-3455